Importance of renewing love in your relationship
Have you ever noticed that in Indian movies, there are far fewer songs dedicated to praising a wife compared to the countless songs that celebrate girlfriends? It's an intriguing observation, one that prompts us to reflect on societal norms and values.
Moving on to the topic at hand, let's discuss the significance of renewing love in any relationship.
Firstly, we must acknowledge a fundamental reality: humans are fortunate to experience the purest form of unconditional love twice in their lifetime.
The first instance is from our parents, bestowed upon us effortlessly from the moment we enter this world. It's a love often taken for granted until we ourselves become parents or reach a stage in life where we realize its profound impact. This journey of self-realization is inevitable for every human being, though for many, understanding the significance of parental love often comes too late to express gratitude adequately.
The second form of unconditional love is from our life partner—a love that must be earned and cherished. It's in this realm that great love stories are born, and individuals are often willing to make immense sacrifices to attain it. However, once achieved, it's common to begin taking this love for granted. This complacency can lead relationships down a tumultuous path, potentially ending in breakup, divorce, or unhappiness.
Now, let's shift our perspective slightly. When you find yourself on the rollercoaster ride of any relationship, take a moment to close your eyes and introspect with these essential questions:
Why should someone love me?
Why would someone sacrifice everything for me?
What have I done to deserve this love?
What am I doing to maintain this love?
Why me?
Finding honest answers to these questions can smooth out the bumps in your relationship's journey and pave the way for a renewed and happy partnership.
These answers ground you in reality and foster a curiosity to continually learn more about your partner or parents each day. This ongoing curiosity fuels efforts to nurture and renew your relationship constantly.
Consider this: both you and your partner are evolving individuals. Embracing this truth ensures that curiosity in your relationship never fades. Remember, every opportunity to renew your connection is precious—don't let it slip by. Put in your best efforts to hop on board and make the most of it.
Ultimately, even a simple gesture like saying thank you can work wonders in your life.
In every relationship, "I don't know" plays a pivotal role. Each day presents an opportunity to learn more about your partner and deepen your understanding of each other.
In conclusion, the notion of being "made for each other" may be a myth, but being "known for each other" is the profound reality we should strive for in our relationships.
— Gowribaba
